• 360° Thinkers Lead 90° Thinkers

    90° thinkers manage tasks.360° thinkers shape vision. A 90° thinker sees what’s right in front of them, the next quarter, the next deadline, the next decision.A 360° thinker sees how today connects to tomorrow; how people, purpose, and progress intersect. One manages systems.The other moves people. Leadership isn’t about authority; it’s about awareness. It’s the…


  • Resilience: The Hidden Superpower in Tech

    Resilience is crucial in tech because the industry is fast-paced, unpredictable, and constantly evolving. Without it, both individuals and organizations can quickly burn out or fall behind. Here’s why it matters: 1. Constant Change & Disruption New programming languages, frameworks, and tools appear regularly. Resilience helps you adapt without being paralyzed by “tech whiplash.” 2.…


  • The Power of Perspective

    When used correctly, your perspective is a powerful tool. It shapes how you understand life and ultimately how you respond to it. Your perspective, by nature, is formed by your position in time, space, and experience. It reflects where you were, when you were there, and what you saw or felt in that moment. This…


  • What does Success look like?

    Thoughts about a powerful distinction between external validation and internal fulfillment when it comes to success. If success is defined externally, it means chasing societal benchmarks—wealth, status, recognition—often shaped by others’ expectations. But true success should be internally driven, rooted in personal purpose, values, and fulfillment rather than just external markers. When success is external,…


  • “Recognizing Your Hidden Triggers: How Fight or Flight Shapes Your Daily Life”

    We often think of fight or flight as a reaction to extreme danger. But what if I told you it plays a role in your everyday life—in ways you might not even notice? Triggers aren’t always obvious. You may not realize that your irritation in traffic, the way you shut down during an argument, or…


  • Did I Get Married?

    If you’ve been following my journey, you know I’ve had my fair share of twists, turns, and unexpected chapters. But this? This might just be the most beautiful plot twist of them all. So, did I get married? Let’s set the scene. February 25, 2025. A day that, up until now, was just another date…


  • EQ?

    Emotional Intelligence (EQ) refers to the ability to recognize, understand, manage, and influence emotions—both your own and those of others. It plays a crucial role in personal and professional success, affecting how we interact with others, handle stress, and make decisions. The Five Key Components of EQ (Daniel Goleman’s Model) 1. Self-Awareness – Understanding your…


  • What is Imposter Syndrome?

    Have you ever worked really hard on something, like a science project or a piece of art, and when people tell you, “Wow, this is amazing!” you think to yourself, “I don’t think I deserve that compliment. I just got lucky!” That feeling, where you think you’re not as good as people say you are,…


  • The Fear of the Unknown: Identifying, Addressing, and Overcoming It

    The fear of the unknown is a universal experience, something we all grapple with at various points in life. It can manifest when we face a major life decision, step into unfamiliar territory, or confront challenges that seem beyond our control. This fear can hold us back, keeping us stuck in comfort zones that stifle…


  • 2024: A Year of Transformation and Triumph

    As the final hours of 2024 wind down, I find myself reflecting on what has been a monumental year in my life. This year wasn’t just a chapter in my story—it was a testament to resilience, determination, and the power of hope. It was a year of triumph over circumstances many thought would define me…