• What Is Resilience and Why Do We Need It in Technology and in Life?

    Resilience isn’t just about bouncing back. It’s about adapting forward. In technology, resilience is built into the architecture. It’s the unseen layer that ensures a system can recover, scale, and evolve, even when the unexpected happens. The best systems are designed not only to withstand disruption but to learn from it. Every outage, every bug,…


  • Fan the Flames – Beyoncé

    Still recovering from Cowboy Carter ATL Show, voice gone, feet tired, but mind wide open. What Beyoncé delivered wasn’t just entertainment, it was innovation in motion. Vision, precision, technology, and creativity all dialed to 100. It reminded me: real impact comes when we challenge the status quo and stretch what’s possible. Whether it’s building tech,…


  • Mental health matters more than we often admit.

    Sometimes, we need to pause the busyness of life and stop letting the cares of this world pull us away from ourselves. We all need that reminder: to slow down. Life moves in rhythms, heartbeats, melodies, seasons. And when we get too busy, we lose our rhythm. We start operating out of sync, and it…


  • The Power of Perspective

    When used correctly, your perspective is a powerful tool. It shapes how you understand life and ultimately how you respond to it. Your perspective, by nature, is formed by your position in time, space, and experience. It reflects where you were, when you were there, and what you saw or felt in that moment. This…


  • The Power of Becoming Conscious of the Unconscious

    For years, I made choices without fully understanding the unseen forces driving them—buried emotions, unchecked thoughts, and unconscious patterns that shaped my actions. I was operating under influences I didn’t even know existed. But then, I started to see. I became aware of the things I had once been blind to, the emotions I had…


  • What does Success look like?

    Thoughts about a powerful distinction between external validation and internal fulfillment when it comes to success. If success is defined externally, it means chasing societal benchmarks—wealth, status, recognition—often shaped by others’ expectations. But true success should be internally driven, rooted in personal purpose, values, and fulfillment rather than just external markers. When success is external,…


  • “Recognizing Your Hidden Triggers: How Fight or Flight Shapes Your Daily Life”

    We often think of fight or flight as a reaction to extreme danger. But what if I told you it plays a role in your everyday life—in ways you might not even notice? Triggers aren’t always obvious. You may not realize that your irritation in traffic, the way you shut down during an argument, or…


  • 360-Degree Thinker vs. 90-Degree Thinker: The Leadership Mindset Difference

    Introduction • In business, different roles require different levels of thinking. • A CEO (360-degree thinker) must see the full picture, while a CFO or department head (90-degree thinker) focuses on specialized areas. • Understanding these perspectives can help professionals grow into leadership roles. What is a 360-Degree Thinker? • Definition: A person who takes…


  • Did I Get Married?

    If you’ve been following my journey, you know I’ve had my fair share of twists, turns, and unexpected chapters. But this? This might just be the most beautiful plot twist of them all. So, did I get married? Let’s set the scene. February 25, 2025. A day that, up until now, was just another date…


  • EQ?

    Emotional Intelligence (EQ) refers to the ability to recognize, understand, manage, and influence emotions—both your own and those of others. It plays a crucial role in personal and professional success, affecting how we interact with others, handle stress, and make decisions. The Five Key Components of EQ (Daniel Goleman’s Model) 1. Self-Awareness – Understanding your…